I just returned from three weeks in Michigan and Canada with various iterations of my family. There were times the group swelled past 20, but mostly we were a dozen or so, with ages ranging from mid-teens to late 70s. The first week was a family memorial service, but after that, we had little to do besides swim, play card and talk. It's been four years since we've gathered, and thought I knew I missed everyone, I didn't realize how much I needed this time. It's been especiall